[討論] 結婚問題

awth_hk · **註冊時間:** 2005-11-03 10:11 **文章:** 3773

Florence: 你又差d喎...... 複印紙同手抄本差咁遠, 邊度詭到人架!!!

CHU: 你真係24孝老豆, 幫佢做功課比佢玩!

kpmqeh · **註冊時間:** 2004-12-05 23:34 **文章:** 142

Florence 寫:

引言回覆:

kpmqeh
婚紗相唔好去大陸，我見到o的人影得好肉酸，主要係大陸既品味問題
去台灣，有沙灘有森林，映出黎好靚，套餐連飛機票好似幾千到一萬都有

段野都吾系我講,你quote到好似我講似的

chowdee · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 14:13

Mr Chu.............sigh~~~i really wish i have a dad like this la...even i spent so much time to explain to him, if he thinks it's wrong than wrong ga la...not like u ar...

he never play games with me, when i play game, he rather me spend time on studying...even lie to me that if i got 7 As, then buy me 紅白機, BUT~~~i got 8As, and got nothing, he said "if i buy you 紅白機 then you won't get 8As again ga la"

i got his point, but lying to me hurted me so much ga ma.................

just like last time, i bought ADA mud, and reset the whole tank, he thinks it's ugly, then change ALL WATER AND ALL MUD TO SAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that time 我傷害慘重 ar........all expensive fish and grass are 90% dead...

being ur son is so lucky, and i can tell ur son is a smart kid...it's just missing the experience of making and saving money la...otherwise if i were u, i'll support him too...

chu · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 15:08

awth_hk 寫:

CHU: 你真係24孝老豆, 幫佢做功課比佢玩!

唔係我24孝,係一種教育方法來架,做乜都要講效率,讀書都係,小朋友玩個時最易學到野,我買的玩具冇一樣係唔洗用腦的,從來冇買過公仔,車仔係要砌個種,初時四驅車,之後電動搖控都係要用腦砌.打機最早係紅白機,第一個玩"魂斗羅",一定要打爆先可以買第二只玩.培養耐力.哈哈俾d將要為人父母的一個參考啦.

chu · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 15:11

chowdee 寫:

Mr Chu.............sigh~~~i really wish i have a dad like this la...even i spent so much time to explain to him, if he thinks it's wrong than wrong ga la...not like u ar...

he never play games with me, when i play game, he rather me spend time on studying...even lie to me that if i got 7 As, then buy me 紅白機, BUT~~~i got 8As, and got nothing, he said "if i buy you 紅白機 then you won't get 8As again ga la"

i got his point, but lying to me hurted me so much ga ma.................

just like last time, i bought ADA mud, and reset the whole tank, he thinks it's ugly, then change ALL WATER AND ALL MUD TO SAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that time 我傷害慘重 ar........all expensive fish and grass are 90% dead...

being ur son is so lucky, and i can tell ur son is a smart kid...it's just missing the experience of making and saving money la...otherwise if i were u, i'll support him too...

每個人的教仔方法都唔同,有d可能反效果,但希望你明白做老豆的一片苦心.原諒佢啦.

chowdee · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 16:47

chu 寫:

awth_hk 寫:

CHU: 你真係24孝老豆, 幫佢做功課比佢玩!

唔係我24孝,係一種教育方法來架,做乜都要講效率,讀書都係,小朋友玩個時最易學到野,我買的玩具冇一樣係唔洗用腦的,從來冇買過公仔,車仔係要砌個種,初時四驅車,之後電動搖控都係要用腦砌.打機最早係紅白機,第一個玩"魂斗羅",一定要打爆先可以買第二只玩.培養耐力.哈哈俾d將要為人父母的一個參考啦.

你係一個好勁既老豆呀!!!
我欣賞!!!

+
妒忌呀...

Florence · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 17:07

拿,各位男士, 好好向chu兄學習啦, 實行做個好老豆.

awth hk兄:

以我當年既智慧, 係咁上下啦

, 後來再罰抄500次時,我將3支筆用橡根綁實再抄...

老柯 · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 19:51

引言回覆:

以我當件既智慧, 我只可以諗到咁, 後來再罰抄500次時,我將3支筆用橡根綁實再抄...

咁work唔work呀？當年老柯淨係識用間呎幫手寫字咋

F91 · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 19:57

Florence 寫:

而家有很多人遲婚, 遲婚其實可能會令婚姻更好, 因為, 雙方各方面條件比較成熟, 有責任心,我同我老公都係 25畢業, 因為要靠自己, 大家做左4年野先結婚,況且, 男人30先叫做開始佢地既"黃金時期", 在我眼中, 男人35結婚都未叫遲, 因為哩段時期既男人開始有自己既事業, 思想比較成熟, 人亦比較穩重, 如此一來, 先有更好的條件去照顧好一個家庭.. 哩d只係我個人觀點

以前真係唔明點解阿媽成日叫我找個大5年的男人, 而家我先明白, 不過, 已經太遲了...

呢d野唔到你話搵就搵到大5年既又鐘意既

不過我都追緊個細我5年既女仔

唔通阿爸教過我要搵個細5年既女仔

大肥 · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 20:33

我都大過我老婆八年喇~

Florence · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 20:46

Old gold fish:
個次就真係過到骨了, 不過就肯定無500次了, 報大數..哈哈

F91,

引言回覆:

不過我都追緊個細我5年既女仔唔通阿爸教過我要搵個細5年既女仔

咁祝你好運啦, 不過好肯定咁講既係, 同年既男女, 女仔思想較男仔成熟好多...當時阿媽講我會辛苦, 生左之後個樣會"成熟"過老公

, 睇黎我真係要keep 住去美容+瘦身先得了

大肥:
咁你地老婆聽唔聽話先

....

F91 · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 21:18

Florence,
多謝你先...不過我都係抱住會衰硬既心態去追~衰還衰~我都係好努力咁試

唔試過~~我驚之後我會後悔

試...仲有個機會

二少 · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 22:58

chu 寫:

二少寫:

2.別把自己的意願加在兒子身上
咁講唔好怪我
因為世界上就係好多人好心做壞事
知道時已經太遲了

3.你肯定佢識自負盈虧?
你肯定佢想結? (而唔係因為你叫佢結佢又無乜意見?)
我身邊人都遲婚
或甚至唔結(住埋)
識o既人結完離o既都有一堆
最後生結o個個, 係我表弟
搞大o左女友個肚
廿歲左友就結
擺酒都要阿媽籌錢搞.....
即係借錢, 我睇來完全係因為佢媽媽想搞
佢根本無主意

哈哈,二少把火燒到我頭上啦,不過有d冤枉,我唔會強加自己的意願俾個仔架,個仔也唔會奉子成婚架,至於"你肯定佢識自負盈虧?"你諗下我個仔讀大學要26歲先畢業,大學畢業好似應該23喎,讀乜要咁耐架?應該諗到佢有冇自負盈虧的能力了呱,畢業結婚只會係暫時性的經濟問題姐.人話救急唔救窮我明唔可以幫佢一世g.都係一句睇世界唔好睇得太灰.你地個個都有美好的將來.

嘩你話我燒到你頭上就唔講喇
SORRY晒
完全當傾偈O者
不過我認為自負盈虧絕對同搵幾錢/做乜職業無關

amen · **發表於 :** 2006-02-22 23:50

[b]chu[/b], ~大家都係為人父親,只係傾渴吓姐,唔好見怪!!
仔女的性格,思想到唔到可以自家庭,真係您自己先知,我都係23歲結婚,仲早啦!!

d人現在都話我大唔透嫁!!

我現在仔女都三個,自問我耐性教仔的方面一定不如您;您真是一個好父親.........
都祝您早日有杯[color=red][新抱荼]啦!!

總之,仔女生性便是,他們都有自己的一套想法,做咗之後有無得到意中的效果都不可後悔先係做人宗旨!!

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mitac · **註冊時間:** 2003-06-02 13:52 **文章:** 51

Hi Mr. Chu,

Sorry for my lazy on typing Chinese...

I think you are a very good father and you have your point of view. May I share with you my view as a son and a married man (4 years ago, and have a 10 months baby now)...

I graduated when I was 22. After 7 years of working and saving (together with my wife), I spend almost all of us when I got married 4 years ago. I've brought a new apartment with 10% initial cost (360k, and 90% mortgage), 100k for decoration of premises, and a net of around 150k for the whole resturant, diamond ring, taking photos... etc. Totally spend 610k !

However, we haven't got any sponser from our parents during the whole process although they have asked us and willing to help. What we thought was that we have to use our own money... not our parents...

My wife and I have the same target and therefore, we enjoy the whole process... What I want to mention is that the whole planning of marriage is not just the care of money, but also the same target of the couple and they will memorize their whole path...

Helping your son shouldn't be wrong, but if they can set up their target on saving and prepared all things theirselves (including money), they will learn much instead.

水草情迷

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